Wow, I somehow got waaaaaaaay behind on this thread!
I am glad to see that the tension has diffused...or I am way off and it still needs to.
I honestly
did speed-read, lol.
NOT arguing with anyone here, but I did catch a few things that I think are worth discussing.
Socialization was brought up earlier, and whether or not socialization is an accurate form of molding a dog's personality. (That was not the exact wording, but that was basically the idea of the paragraph.)
I think that it is very difficult to determine if socialization is fool-proof. It very well could be, but how will we ever know? If you look at the entire dog population as a whole, how many dog owners are actually educated in dog training, behavior, etc? Probably not a ton. And even many well-educated (understand I mean educated in training and behavior) dog owners don't necessarily understand how to properly socialize a dog. I have known excellent trainers who had shy puppies, who thought socializing was simply exposing him to tons of people. The thinking was that his shy reaction to people would be diffused if he was forced into the arms of enough people. But....he was still shy as an adult. Why? Improper socialization. Socialization at its best is exposing the pup to
positive experiences with new people, dogs, anything else he will ever experience in his life.
Positive experiences. That means the shy puppy isn't thrust into the arms of strangers, but instead encouraged to approach strangers in his own language, at his own pace, and rewarded when he does so
on his own. A positive association is created with strangers right from the start, rather than making him think that people are going to ignore his obvious discomfort and bombard him with unwanted attention anyway.
I know several dogs who were not socialized with other dogs at all whatsoever as puppies--none of them are dog aggressive, but they DO have terrible dog-to-dog manners, and get corrected(by other dogs) often.
These are just a couple examples, but my point is with such a large dog population and such a relatively small amount of educated and devoted owners, it is hard to say if socialization as a whole does actually make an impact. (In relation to the entire dog population, here.) I do not believe that socialization will supercede any genetic issues. I do believe that proper socialization most certainly is important; I am definitely not trying to say that it is not. Just saying that it is hard for us to say that socialization will always create a perfect dog, when the dog-and-owner population as a whole is not perfect. If a study could be conducted with an equally massive population, and every single dog was socialized
properly, we could easily come up with a conclusion to that, but it's just not possible. So, with the information we have currently, I think it's safe to conclude that while socialization is most definitely important and I do believe it should be done with all puppies, but socialization is not a foolproof method to mold a dog's personality.
I'll compare this to horses...horses, like dogs, have a "socialization period." Many people imprint horses in the first week of life, before the foals have learned to develop fears of normal everyday things that horses are often afraid of. Imprinting utilizes this time period and exposes the foal to these things that could be scary, and if training is continued the foal grows up to not be afraid of these things. When grown the horse is much more accepting to newness.
Now here's the catch...this is if imprinting is done properly. If done improperly--if it is rushed, steps are skipped, or a variety of other mistakes are made--the horse is a nightmare, and requires much much much more training to correct the mistakes made right from the start. The horse generally becomes pushy, disrespectful, and in some cases fearful.
I'll use two of my horses as examples. Spirit, my 4 year old filly, was imprinted. She is what horse people term "bombproof" meaning she is afraid of almost nothing. She is very accepting of new things, confident, and unreactive to things that horses are normally afraid of. Sassy, my 6 year old, was not imprinted. Sassy is far less confident, and when we first got her she was very spooky(scared of new things). Spirit's polar opposite. With training, Sassy has become much much more confident and is now less scared of those things, but initially she had the "normal horse reaction" to things that horses are afraid of. This would sort of be like the dog that never saw other dogs as puppies and has no manners. Sassy has manners, but initially she just didn't know how to react to certain things, like the unsocialized dog may know how to react to other dogs.
With "old school" horse training methods, horses were forced to accept scary things, much like improper dog socialization. Horses were often beaten with tarps until they shut down and would no longer react to them. (A super scary object to a horse.) Anything that was scary, they were forced to accept by making them shut down. Horses trained with this method were often like ticking time bombs--they were still very much afraid of newness, but also afraid to react to newness. So if they did react, they had been pushed pretty far, and the reaction was far more violent.
We'll get back to dogs. Another example is an abused Italian Greyhound/Daschund mix I worked with. We don't know about Dex's socialization as a pup, but we do know he was beaten. His owner(obviously NOT the one that beat him), though her heart was in the right place, also fell into the thought that enough exposure to people would cure his fear of people. When I met him, he would approach people, but then was visibly stressed at being so close to a stranger, and even more stressed when they touched him. We completely changed his training by watching his behavior when he approached someone. If he was comfortable, they could pet him. If he wasn't, he was rewarded by
not being petted. If he was really stressed he was rewarded by the stranger leaving him completely, or turning away from him, etc. Dex began to improve by leaps and bounds--the first time we did this was actually with me, and his reaction was heartwarming--he was completely surprised, and you could tell he was just thinking, "WHAT? Someone actully listened to me!!!!!" He then actually
wanted attention from me, and from that day forward he's been in love with me. We've continued this method with all people, and now that he understands people
WILL listen to him, that he won't just be forced to accept things, he is beginning to love just about everyone. So while Dex had/has
human-caused issues, proper training is certainly helping him.
Zeke, who I'm pretty sure was Tigerlily's shy-dog-raised-with-DA-dog example, was socialized a lot as a pup, had positive experiences, we always worked on his level, etc, is still an extremely timid dog and has taken years just to get him to approach someone willingly and let them pet him. His brother, who had very little socialization, is his exact opposite. Poncho is a social butterfly, clown, and very confident. He loves everyone and everything. Same litter, same start in life, less socialization...but more sure of himself and of people.
Anyway...just a little discussion on socialization... So much more could be added on this topic, but this is a long reply anyway, lol!