Anneke
Honored Member
Yes, you KNOW your dog. And I mean really know your dog.
Most people I meet, that call out: My dog is friendly!!, have absolutely no clue about dogbehaviour. They think it is "friendly" when their dog goes barging into another dog. Their explanation of this is: Aaww he really wants to play!!!
And that's when thing can go so horribly wrong.
Something I also hear a lot: he wags his tail, so he likes your dog....For these people wagging tails mean happy dog...
But there are different types of wags. And a stiff wag with a high held tail(combined with a stiff body and staring) is NOT friendly, it is a challenge. But they don't see the bodylanguage, they only see a wagging tail.
And I know someone, who has had about 15 dogs in her lifetime. I knew her dog for only a few days. At one point her dog attacked another dog. She was completly surprised by this. To her it came out of nowhere. But I had seen all the signs. Two male dogs, circling each other, staring, stiff postures, the other dog trying to dominate her dog by putting his head on his back. And every other sign I can't think of right now.
I was already on my way to step between them, but because I had a dog on leash, I didn't make it on time.
She thought her dog was just making friends... She was very upset by this and after another run in with the same dog, she rehomed her dog. Because he was aggressive...
But he wasn't. He could play with a lot of dogs and was very tolerant with most rude dogs.
It was just this one dog, that he couldn't get along with.
So very, very sad.
It's not just the agression(or thought to be agressive behaviour) that is misunderstood.
Cooper smiles... When he is very pleased and happy. But showing teeth is also a sign of aggression, that is common knowlidge. A little less known is that showing teeth can be a sign of fear. But noone knows that the showing of only the front teeth(of course alway accompanied by a wiggling body, a happy face and a wide wagging tail) can just be happiness.
Most people who see this for the first time, are afraid. Because he is showing teeth! It is only when I point out that the rest of his body is showing "happy signs", they see it for what it is.
I have had a neighbour that got a very cute westie pup. After about a week she told me her pup was agressive. So I asked her why, because I had not seen any sign of this in this little ball of fluff. He was just a happy little, social fellow.
She explained: he bit her all the time.
I couldn't believe it, so I asked her to show me.
When she played with her pup, she would tickle his tummy and he would bite her hand. Like every little pup does. Not really biting hard, just using his mouth a lot, like he would when playing with his littermates.
And yes there are agressive dogs out there, ones that have it in their genes.
But there are more clueless owners out there, that cause a dog to go bad. I don't neccessarely mean that they make a dog agressive, but that is a label that is easier to stick on the dog, then to look for the reason in themselves. No, it is usually the dogs fault, not the owners.
My dog doesn't come when called. Have you taught him to come? No, he knows his name, so when I call, he should come...
There is this lady in my neighbourhood, who has this little white fluffy thing. She has kept this dog away from other dogs from the moment she got him as a pup. Every time a dog came over to meet her little one, she would pick him up and act hysterical, because this "big" dog could hurt her little pup.
Well, her dog is a teacup maltese, so even a jack russel is big, compared to this tiny dog.
Now, every time this dog sees another dog, he barks his head off. She can't let it off leash, because he will charge the other dog. And now she complains that he is so agressive to dogs.
I am certain that she is the cause of this. Had she let her pup meet other dogs(most of the dogs around here are very friendly) and not pick it up and act all hysterical, her pup would have learned, that dogs are ok. Instead she taught her dog, other dogs are really scary things.
Unfortunately for dogs, there aren't so many people, like us, that take time to teach their dogs and really get to know their dogs. Most people simply give up, when there is a problem. ( Just look at the amount of dogs in shelters)
And being the owner of a dog-agressive dog, I can get so mad with these people who mess a perfectly good dog up.
Sorry, had to get this out of my system
Most people I meet, that call out: My dog is friendly!!, have absolutely no clue about dogbehaviour. They think it is "friendly" when their dog goes barging into another dog. Their explanation of this is: Aaww he really wants to play!!!
And that's when thing can go so horribly wrong.
Something I also hear a lot: he wags his tail, so he likes your dog....For these people wagging tails mean happy dog...
But there are different types of wags. And a stiff wag with a high held tail(combined with a stiff body and staring) is NOT friendly, it is a challenge. But they don't see the bodylanguage, they only see a wagging tail.
And I know someone, who has had about 15 dogs in her lifetime. I knew her dog for only a few days. At one point her dog attacked another dog. She was completly surprised by this. To her it came out of nowhere. But I had seen all the signs. Two male dogs, circling each other, staring, stiff postures, the other dog trying to dominate her dog by putting his head on his back. And every other sign I can't think of right now.
I was already on my way to step between them, but because I had a dog on leash, I didn't make it on time.
She thought her dog was just making friends... She was very upset by this and after another run in with the same dog, she rehomed her dog. Because he was aggressive...
But he wasn't. He could play with a lot of dogs and was very tolerant with most rude dogs.
It was just this one dog, that he couldn't get along with.
So very, very sad.
It's not just the agression(or thought to be agressive behaviour) that is misunderstood.
Cooper smiles... When he is very pleased and happy. But showing teeth is also a sign of aggression, that is common knowlidge. A little less known is that showing teeth can be a sign of fear. But noone knows that the showing of only the front teeth(of course alway accompanied by a wiggling body, a happy face and a wide wagging tail) can just be happiness.
Most people who see this for the first time, are afraid. Because he is showing teeth! It is only when I point out that the rest of his body is showing "happy signs", they see it for what it is.
I have had a neighbour that got a very cute westie pup. After about a week she told me her pup was agressive. So I asked her why, because I had not seen any sign of this in this little ball of fluff. He was just a happy little, social fellow.
She explained: he bit her all the time.
I couldn't believe it, so I asked her to show me.
When she played with her pup, she would tickle his tummy and he would bite her hand. Like every little pup does. Not really biting hard, just using his mouth a lot, like he would when playing with his littermates.
And yes there are agressive dogs out there, ones that have it in their genes.
But there are more clueless owners out there, that cause a dog to go bad. I don't neccessarely mean that they make a dog agressive, but that is a label that is easier to stick on the dog, then to look for the reason in themselves. No, it is usually the dogs fault, not the owners.
My dog doesn't come when called. Have you taught him to come? No, he knows his name, so when I call, he should come...
There is this lady in my neighbourhood, who has this little white fluffy thing. She has kept this dog away from other dogs from the moment she got him as a pup. Every time a dog came over to meet her little one, she would pick him up and act hysterical, because this "big" dog could hurt her little pup.
Well, her dog is a teacup maltese, so even a jack russel is big, compared to this tiny dog.
Now, every time this dog sees another dog, he barks his head off. She can't let it off leash, because he will charge the other dog. And now she complains that he is so agressive to dogs.
I am certain that she is the cause of this. Had she let her pup meet other dogs(most of the dogs around here are very friendly) and not pick it up and act all hysterical, her pup would have learned, that dogs are ok. Instead she taught her dog, other dogs are really scary things.
Unfortunately for dogs, there aren't so many people, like us, that take time to teach their dogs and really get to know their dogs. Most people simply give up, when there is a problem. ( Just look at the amount of dogs in shelters)
And being the owner of a dog-agressive dog, I can get so mad with these people who mess a perfectly good dog up.
Sorry, had to get this out of my system