Not sure how I managed to miss this whole thread - but somehow I did!
Great job with Oka! She's still technically a puppy - and look how far she's come in the last few months. She's still a teenager (and it doesn't matter how many legs they have - we know what means!
) - it sounds like she's doing really really well!
If you decide on another dog, would you ever consider getting an adult dog? I'm asking because I'm thinking about the situation I have here. Both mine are rescues, I avoided the whole puppy thing you're going thru. But, thinking about your situation, I was thinking about my two. I look at Makena, I can't let her off-leash as you can, she's fear-aggressive (a whole other thread) - but - she also is a much more independent dog, very bright, energetic, alert, sounds a lot like Oka (except for the social aspect - she LOVES people, just is fear-aggressive with dogs). Then there's Alfie. He LOVES other dogs - but people trump all. He loves nothing more than to run and meet other dogs - but I'm his favorite reward. Of all the dogs I've ever had, there's probably not one with a better recall. He and Makena are connected at the hip - but one "hey Alf, let's go" and he's with me (and it's a great way to get her, cuz if she's distracted, it might be iffy). If you were able to adopt an older dog (maybe just 2 or 3 yrs) who's personality you knew, maybe one in a foster home, you might find one who loved to play, but was more 'settled' (thinking Alfie here) - and it may help Oka, in the way that she might be inclined to follow his lead (him hopefully following you -- in time). Just a thought.
It sounds like you're doing a fabulous job - keep up the good work. It may help you to look back at where you were at the beginning of this thread and give yourself a big piece of chocolate for all the work you've done!
And sheesh, I know it's a long time - but think of where you'll be in a year! I probably shouldn't say this, but knowing she has a lot of GS in her - they don't mature til around 3 yrs old.
And look how far she's come!!
So - that's really bad news/good news!! I think she's gonna be an amazing girl - everyone will be envious!
You mentioned really early on about the prejudice against GS (or big dogs in general) being aggressive, etc. You know, the best way to combat that is just to try to have the best behaved dogs possible. I try to be polite around people, have well-behaved dogs, and let them be good ambassadors of the breed. My friend has Goldens, one who has had issues with kids in the past. We were walking at the beach one day (dogs on leash). My Alfie LOVES kids, while she tries to keep kids away from her female. Wouldn't you know, we'd see families walking toward us and of course, they'd see Alfie and it was like the parting of the Red Sea -
omg, grab the kids, it's not only a Germ Shep, but a black one, and heaven knows, all black ones are dangerous!!! Parents would grab their kids' hands and pull them far away from us. But - she was constantly reigning in her Golden and asking parents to please keep their kids back -
oh look a (strange) Golden, we're going to run and throw our arms around it and love and hug it to pieces and the parents would be smiling - never imagining that the dog was scared of kids and may very well bite them out of fear. Alfie would have loved to have had some "kid time". But not only is he a Germ Shep, he's black - he's got a double whammy - cuz as we all know, all black GS's are horribly dangerous dogs, even with his soft ears.
I guess I'm babbling - but I feel your pain. Just keep working with Oka, help her to become the best dog she can be. Do keep her out of other peoples' space - I say that on behalf of all those with dogs like Makena, she just can't handle loose dogs running up to her, she has a meltdown (but otherwise, now does fine taking walks after lots of work).
I can't wait to read your update in a few more months - cuz I bet she'll continue to impress you more and more as she matures. Keep up the good work, you're an inspiration!